How to decide which person do you love most? March 11
Last week my friend consult her problem to me…. she was confused to make A choice between two guys….. She can’t decide which guy is the best for her… she afraid that if she make that decision it will make another guy Unhappy, hurt their feelings and bla bla bla ( sry I couldn’t remember what she said). I listen to her story carefully and identify the thing (keyword) that make her afraid and confused, even she realised she have to make that decision and she take the responsible of it.
I know most of you out there doing the same….. not because I am a magician that know what u feel. It just because we are human and we all have the same basic instinct.
After few minutes this is the point of what I said to Her;
- Don’t use Logical thinking for love case
I said this to her to eliminate her FEAR (False Evidence Appears Reals) then she replied with all the excuses (which is her fear) to me. And I replied back ”Thats Logical Thinking!” - Make it Simple Choices
I said to her you have 2 choices ( 3 choices is the max when you about to make a decision) Whether you hurt one of the guy feelings, or hurt yourself, because that the way of live is. - Know Yourself Better
She said to me she don’t know which one she want…. Then I remember Anime Quotes and said it to her ”When You don’t know what you want, then you still don’t know how deep are your heart” and I ask her to ask her own heart… :D - Everything just gonna be alrite
At last I said My famous quote to her “Don’t Worry!”. hehehe Most of Jakarta Restaurant Crew have been infected with my motivated virus quotes :p.
Then couple days later after she consult her problem, she said she already make that desicion and she feel happy about it….. she said “Thanks Andika because of you I make that desicion”, I smile and in my heart I said “thanks to your self I didn’t do anything, you the one who fight with yourself”
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rheezq Jul 23
it maybe related with my question
“True Love: is it a faith or is it a choice?”
it’s a choice to me. How about you?
I’ll write much about it when I had time.
Btw, great website, maybe you could help me with some ideas about my site?
regards
Andika Kusuma Jul 24
yes its a choice for me I agree with you. I’ll wait your post about, just let me know when you post it ok?!
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Home Based Employment Dec 2
i see and bad happen with r friend but who person more loves her not think that she is best love to other person. most important is other person to loves see. and choose that person.
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